Well let me explain something about myself. Sex for me is a complete devotion to the women i am with. It’s not about me cumming. My orgasms are good, but no where near the vicinity of what a woman can acquire, if done correctly. Over the years I’ve learned more and more. I’ve had many partners. Call me a slut or a man whore. The # of women I’ve slept with I do not know. I love my virginity at 15. It’s been almost a decade. 5-10 women a year, you do the math. Due to my sexual conquest that I’ve been set on, it is a turn on to have sex with strangers. To not know or share anything but passion, lust, desire, and pleasure. You might think that there’s no emotional connection, but there most definitely is. It’s just not convoluted, It’s very basic, primal instincts. The connection is the pleasure, the pure joy and satisfaction of hearing a woman scream because of what I am doing to her. I’ve never had an orgasm that left me screaming, shaking, unable to breathe, semi conscious, unable to move, convulsions, etc. I’ve seen all that in a woman and more.

Recently I’ve realized that a woman’s orgasm depends very much on her comfortability with herself first of all, and then with her partner. Some people are able to completely let go and open up with a stranger, others only with somebody they deeply care about. The difference is, when you get he worked up, if she’s comfortable, she won’t tell you to stop and allow the feeling to overwhelm her. Even if it’s something that’s completely new to her. If she isn’t, then most likely she will tell you to stop, due to her not being in control and not knowing. This realization gave me more track for my theory, that all women can have a squirting orgasm.

My sexual partners have ranged from 13/14 (when i was under 18 of course) up to in the late 50’s, maybe even early 60’s. I know they were grand mothers, sexy for their age, but still. 

One thing that has always stood out is how good I was for my age. But the underlying truth is that I was always just completely devoted to a woman. I only cared about pleasuring her. There have been numerous times when I didn’t come during sex because I only cared about giving her an orgasm and wanted to continue on until she couldn’t take it anymore.

The beginning, the most important thing, is Kissing. You must be a good kisser, a passionate kisser. When you kiss a girl, you’re not kissing her face, her lips, but you’re kissing her soul, reaching in and tasting it. Kissing is the most important and basic foundation of sex.

It all starts with a simple kiss.