I’m sort of nervous about having my first sex experience with my boyfriend mainly because he loves getting oral and I’ve never done it, do you have any tips for me?!

Practice makes perfect. If your boyfriend knows that you’ve never given head, your comfortable with him, and he’s patient. Practice on him, I’m sure he would love it as well. And tell him to tell you what he likes. If your not and/or you want to surprise him, I suggest practicing at home. There are two parts, your mouth and your hands. Do you know if you have a gag reflex or not? Yes, then figure out how deep or shallow it is. If it’s shallow you’ll need to use one hand or both depending on his size. No, then when you give head slide all of it, if you can, into your mouth. The warm sensation of your mouth and tongue and then the tip sliding down your throat is an extraordinary feeling. Tongue licking is nice, but you must find out how sensitive he is. I’m not as sensitive before I cum so I barely feel the tongue. I get more sensitive when I’m about to orgasm and definitely right after, so at that point you can use it a lot more. But like I said, he might be extremely sensitive from the start so you could use it much more. Creativity is key.

With your hand(s) stroke it gently, use two or three fingers, as if holding a pen. And slide his penis through the hole. Stroke him gently but keep your fingers wrapped around semi tight. When you reach the tip, let  your fingers slide all the way over the tip. And squeeze the tip, but squeeze it in a sliding motion so it pops out of the whole your fingers are making. When you get good at that, you can reverse your hand as well doing  it the other way, or use two hands squeezed around, but constantly moving. I mean if you’re stroking his penis, also twist and turn, don’t be 1 dimensional. Be creative.

You need to learn to listen to his moans and body as well and note his reactions to certain things. If you’re uncertain do it again and see how he reacts. Also, you don’t have to do this right away, but I love it when a girl makes noises while doing it with the penis in her mouth. For example if she slurps on it. But before that, try masturbating while you’re doing it. See if you can make yourself cum. It’s a turn on, even if we know it’s a lie, but to believe you’re getting as turned on from giving head as the guy is receiving it.  Use spit as lube if you don’t have any.

Also if you like getting dirty, get messy, get his dick really slimy. You’d need a towel for that. I hope this helps. Merry Christmas.