The only difference between a good kisser and a bad one, is passion. Bad kissers lack passion, they might have desire, but there’s no flame burning deep inside. You need passion. I can tell when I kiss a girl what kind of sex it will be. I can measure the amount of passion is burning inside of her.

The mouth is the gateway to your soul, with a kiss you can connect on a whole other level if you both have the same amount of passion. It’s almost as if life is being sucked out of you. I know this because, luckily, I’ve kissed my soul mate and know. But that is another story that soon will come.

Ladies, if you say you don’t like kissing, that’s a lie. You can also tell by a kiss if the other person is holding back or free falling with you. The key is passion. Always always kiss passionately. I can definitely tell when it’s there or when it’s gone, but I’ve realized others can’t, only a few. When you passionately kiss someone and you feel it in them too. The kiss being amazing, perfect, you will forget to exhale and get all tingly inside.

A woman’s body is extremely sensitive. Patience, teasing, building up the tension before the moment is very important. Oral sex is too, but I’m talking about before that. Either this occurs as you are undressing her or it happens when she’s already naked. But before you focus in on her pussy, breasts, face, neck and shoulders, you must focus on the rest of her body. Focusing on her feet, her ankles, her calves, her knees, her thighs, her hips, her stomach, her sides, her back, her arms, her hands, her fingers, her ears, and I already mentioned this, but her neck and shoulders as well.

You use your tongue, lips, finger tips and your teeth. Realize her entire body can be considered a clitoris, it stimulates her physically and mentally. You start out delicately by pleasuring every inch of her. Making her feel desired, wanted, and worshiped. By focusing on all her areas and skipping over her pussy and nipples, you increase their sensitivity. Biting in areas that aren’t as sensitive, like her forearms, outer thighs, back, and lips (on her face) is for the pain. Give her some pain, after the pain subsides it lingers and turns into pleasure. Also it helps her body focus on the pleasure, making it more intense. In these moments pain is pleasure, the thin line between them being non existent. Too much pleasure hurts, too much pain hurts, you have to distribute them with the correct amount. If you’ve done all that, I highly recommend you lightly blow on her nipples and/or clit or use a feather of sorts. To you it might seem like nothing, but to her, after all the waiting, anticipation, it will seem like a lot more. Depending on how good you are, you might even make her have an orgasm like that.

Just because the signs say “Enter here”, doesn’t mean there aren’t other entrances or secret/hidden doors that you can open. You just have to search, if you actually want her to remember you in bed. If you don’t care about pleasuring a woman, don’t read my shit. 

We are humans. If you cut us, we bleed. If we eat, later we shit. If we drink, we pee. Having sex, you must expect anything and everything. In the bedroom there are no limits. If I was out in public and spit on your stomach, you most likely would throw a fit, scream and probably slap me. In the bedroom, it’s called lube. Get my drift. If you fuck a girl, definitely a virgin or one who’s about to start her period, chances are she will bleed. The lesson is, be mature and grown about the situation. Don’t freak out! A lady in bed is baring everything to you, no matter how secure and confident she looks, she’s still insecure about things. If you like anal sex and it’s spontaneous (she couldn’t prep herself), don’t go crazy if shit accidentally lands on your dick. Just accept it, realize more than likely she’s doing it more for you than her and move on. Don’t make a big deal out of it. Sex is dirty, it’s nasty, it involves bodily fluids. You can’t control anything, so don’t act like it. Hence I say no limits, it will get sweaty, messy, spit will be exchanged, pussy juices, cum, anal juices (yes some women secrete anally), and if you’re not comfortable with it. Don’t have sex.  There is nothing worse than a man freaking out, finding something that happened in the bedroom disgusting and terrorizing the woman. Making her feel ashamed and embarrassed and what ever it is that you were doing, she’ll never do that again in fear of it might happening again. For example squirting. Most men find it disgusting, why!? All I can say is they are idiots.

Those are the three lessons I’ve learned.

Passionate kisser.

Worship (stimulate) her entire body.

In the bedroom always be calm, no matter what happens.